Published April 11, 2025

Experience Before You Commit: A Proven Approach to Finding Your Perfect Home

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Written by Susan Rochwarg

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Every house-hunter is up for a day trip, but what we recommend isn't just any "vacation day" or "escape-in-mind" adventure. This is an all-out discovery day designed to literally drop you into your potential future home and community.

Why This Matters: Experiencing a community and neighborhood before committing is crucial because it allows you to engage all your senses and emotional intelligence too.

It's better to take risks upfront before you commit to a home than to pay the price and suffer the disappointments after purchasing the wrong house in the wrong area.

 

Here's how one unexpected discovery trip changed everything:

 

During one of my exploratory 'experience it' trips, I carefully planned to drive through all the "right" neighborhoods and walk the streets in the areas I was attracted to. I stopped (and lingered) for coffee at 1 of 2 coffee shops, imagining I'd be back again. I picked one with seating and I planned to stay awhile. I wanted to act as if it was already my favorite and have as many conversations as possible. I set out to find the nearest trail access and checked the morning and afternoon activity and the downtown vibe. Later in the day, my car had a low-on-air tire warning. I paced a bit waiting for roadside assistance, and wandered into a small neighborhood eatery I never would have visited otherwise.

The owner was friendly and talkative, and before I knew it, I was getting insider tips about a completely different area of town that wasn't on my radar. She even introduced me to a few regulars who lived in the area and knew the lay of the land. That accidental detour led me to discover the neighborhood I ultimately moved to—one that wasn't on my list but offered a sense of community I didn't realize I was really after. I learned some of the most valuable insights come when you venture off your planned route and experience a place as it truly is, not just as you imagine it to be. That place became my regular spot, and those people I met that day? They're now part of my new social circle.

 

Key Takeaways:

  • Get uncomfortable when you have to. The most revealing moments often happen outside your comfort zone.
  • Act as if you've already moved there. Shop at local stores, visit parks at different times of day, and try the commute.
  • Talk to locals whenever possible—they have insights no listing or website can provide.
  • Pay attention to what surprises you, both positively and negatively.
  • Trust your instincts about how a place feels, not just how it looks on paper.

 

Remember, this step, "Experience Before You Commit" works hand-in-hand with our "Dream and Document" and "Define Non-Negotiables" groundwork, from our 3 ACTIONABLE STEPS and guide.

The discovery trip is where theory meets reality, often revealing what truly matters to you in unexpected ways.

 

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